As Heather’s personal hygiene has slipped it’s become apparent that she needs a daily shower. I do this with her as she can’t figure out soap and body washing on her own anymore and she can’t follow even the simplest of spoken instructions. So I hop in and gently do it all from shampooing to leg shaving. The last few times she has cried almost the whole time. I have absolutely no clue why and it’s absolutely heartbreaking.